Mistress M

Name?
-Miss M (@SussexMistress)

Where are you from?
-Originally Surrey UK but now on the Sussex coast

About:

What kind of books do you read?
-A mix of novels, biographies, historical & educational

what programmes do you watch?
-I seldom watch TV but will make time for The Blacklist

 do you like watching your videos back?
-Yes but because I the enjoy editing process.

Does it take you long to film the perfect clip?
-It really depends on the clip and how it's set up. More time may be spent on backgrounds/lighting than actual filming. 

Which is your favourite clips? 
-Did a few recently which involved feet and cake but gasmask videos are always fun to do.

How often do you exercise?
-5 days in 7

Away from being a domme what do you do in your spare time? 
-I'm a lifestyle Domme so I am rarely away from it, but I do choose to do other things besides beating people senseless. I'm a registered bodypiercer and take a day or two a week decorating all the lovely folk that want jewellery.

Personal:


You seem to take so easily... is this the same in your vanilla life?
-I'm very calm and relaxed generally. You don't need to shout to dominate but my life is easy because I have full control of it.

what fetishes are you into and what don't you like?
-I cover quite a range. But it all falls under "safe, sane and consensual" 
I don't do blood, needles (purely because I like to keep them separate) or vomit/snot.  I do Sph. Cbt. Nipple torture, sensory deprivation, breathplay, gasmasks, forced feminisation, sissification, chastity, impact, feet/heel worship, watersports, hard sports on occasion but not always, findom, humiliation, degradation, petplay to name but a few.


As a domme what's the one thing your most proud of? 
-When submissives make a new discovery about a kink and explore.

You have a way with words to captivate male minds, have you always been like this? 
-Yes but always learning new skills/techniques

Who is your favorite fetish model?
-Oh far too many to list, there are so many talented women and men about currently.

Business :

When did you realise you wanted to be a domme? 
-There was no "lightbulb" moment, it was always going to happen.

How did you start your work in this industry?
-Social media has played a huge role. I run a twitter/tumblr/instagram account (website is currently down for reconstruction) I started there and it has snowballed.  

What's your best domme experience ?
-I have some lovely regular subs that are a joy to play with. They are all so much fun and have very different tastes. I love the variety.

What's your worst domme experience?
-Dealing with horny self entitled wank messages on a daily basis. If you want to approach a Domme and your opening line is "make me your... (insert sub term)" you've guaranteed yourself a place on the shit list. Be polite, say hello, even a couple of lines as to why a particular Domme/Mistress has caught your eye. You will get much further.

What's your opinion about industry?
-I'm self employed, I chose my hours, pick my clients. I would much rather do this than stuck in an office.  I love that the industry is so diverse. 

Who do you like to work with?
-N/a but I do have friends in the industry I share a laugh with.

What's your plans further with your brand? 
-I am currently considering whether to offer more real time sessions as its a regular request.

Men seem to fall at your feet so easy? How do you do it?
-*laughing* rohypnol. Just kidding. (I don't allow drugs on the premises) I am a natural force that submissive men recognise.

So to become your best fan do subs get any rewards? Or is you talking enough? 
-As I say, I have a handful I play with, they all started out by chatting and being polite. 

What type of subs do you prefer? 
-Polite and respectful ones. I also welcome newbies to the scene. 

Have you had any fit subs? 
-Yes.

Do you have any tips for newbie subs trying it out? 
-Relax, be courteous, don't come armed with a list of demands. Remember that not every Mistress or Domme offers the same service. We are not a one size fits all service. Most of all its about fun. We do this because we enjoy it. 

Message to fans?
-I appreciate you all. Now show me how you appreciate me.

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Twitter - @SussexMistress 
IG - sussexmistress
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