Basic : Name? - Brutal Brittney Where are you from? - I'm from New England. About: What kind of books do you read? - My favorites are usually Horror novels and Fantasy, I have a love for the darker things in life. What programmes do you watch? - I love American Horror Story, Bates Motel and Scream. How often do you exercise? - Every morning as well as a run before bed. Away from being a domme what do you do in your spare time? - Participate in charities, volunteer, paint, write poetry, eat pizza...It varies day to day, haha. Personal: You seem to take so easily... is this the same in your vanilla life? - I never have to take anything, I receive what is rightfully mine. What fetishes are you into and what don't you like? - I'm very much a sado, I love giving pain and humiliation. I don't like scat, I absolutely refuse to partake in it. As a domme what's the one thing your most proud of? - My creativity, I always have a new way to play. You have a way with words to captivate male minds, have you always been like this? - Ever since I was a teenager, males have always had this desire to give me everything the moment I speak. Who is your favorite fetish model? - It ties between Mixtrix and Miss Foxx Do you have submissive girls around you? Or just guys - It's rare to find a submissive Female these days but actually one of my long term pets is a Female and she's been with me for 4 years. Business :
When did you realise you wanted to be a domme? - I have always really been one, I just discovered the word that fit the description later on. How did you start your work in this industry? - Though I don't really consider it work, I came into Findom through a fellow Domme friend, I made myself new social media accounts and joined a few kink websites and it sort of took off from there. What's your best domme experience ? - I think all of my best Domme experiences come from UK subs, they are always so much more obedient, willing to learn and they tribute well also. What's your worst domme experience? - A man who came to me asking me to blackmail him with his photo collection of under aged girls. What's your opinion about industry? - I think it's a very misunderstood industry. I myself love it and hope that more people will learn more about it before they pass judgement. Who do you like to work with? - Goddess Hel or Mistress Bunny 💙 What's your plans further with your brand? - Ohh I have many plans in the works, keep an eye on my platforms. -Especially- Twitter. I have many surprises in store. Where can subs book cam sessions and what type do you offer? - I don't typically do live cam for sessions, but a sub may book any form of session with me by sending an email to [email protected] Men seem to fall at your feet so easy? How do you do it? - I don't do anything, it just happens. As it should. So to become your best fan do subs get any rewards? Or is you talking enough? - All of my subs get rewarded. Sometimes with fulfilling a kink, allowing them to worship my photos, video clips, or voice clips, some may receive used items, a specific session, etc. What type of subs do you prefer? - I prefer humiliation subs, sissy subs, older subs, UK Subs. Above all, I prefer those with a bit of experience, intelligence and I cannot stress this enough...Obedience and loyalty is a must. Have you had any fit subs? - Yes, I have had many. I've had subs of all facial and body types to be honest, looks are just a plus. Do you have any tips for newbie subs trying it out? - Research and budget. Know what you are getting into and how to spot a fake. Some Dommes, like myself, offer ways to make extra money from home and actually enjoy the training process, but like any sort of relationship, everyone is different. Do not jump immediately into a DS relationship, it is my opinion that it is best to have a sub Under Consideration for some time before being owned, it's better for both parties involved. Make sure your Domme is verified of course but that she also understands SSC & RACK and that you have established any hard limits you have, this is usually a conversation you will have after your application process and initial tribute has been received. Lastly, remember that nothing in this fetish is free and in order to properly serve your Domme, you put her needs above your own. Message to fans? - Welcome to my Altar, my subjects. I suppose you have come here to learn more about your Supreme Goddess and how to better serve her? Sit patiently with your mind and your wallet open, I know you must be nervous with even the idea of approaching such a superior being yet you just can't help but find yourself coming back time and time again till you're ready to just burst at the seams. What are these surprises your Supreme Goddess speaks of? Soon you will find wonderful ways to fulfill your destiny. New interactive games, New ways to tribute, New rewards for good little subjects and much, much more. Stay tuned on my Twitter and untill then..keep edging. 💋 Put all your links below - https://mobile.twitter.com/BrutalDommeBrit - https://www.fetish.com/my/BrutalDommeBrittney/1496650525 - http://www.collarspace.com/default.asp?v=2575281&o=1&bhcp=1 - https://fetlife.com/users/7198092 - https://www.paypal.me/BRUTALTRIBUTE Thank you for your time
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Basic : Name? -Mistress Crystal Anne Where are you from? -USA About: What kind of books do you read? -I could spend hours answering this question, as my degree was originally in English Lit. My favourite books are as follows: Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov, The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath, and everything by Henry Miller or Anais Nin. I love Plath’s poetry as well. What programmes do you watch? I am currently obsessed with The Handmaidens Tale, The Fall, and Sense8. Old favourites include: Dexter, The Walking Dead, Dr Who, Rick and Morty, Supernatural, and Six Feet Under. Do you like watching your videos back? -I always watch them back for quality purposes, but hearing ones own voice is always nervewracking in my opinion. Does it take you long to film the perfect clip? -I try to be authentic in my clips and therefore the first take often is messy… Sometimes it hits the right nerve and it’s perfect. IT also seems to depend on the client with whom I am working for. We all play favourites. Which is your favourite clips? -I made a clip for a sub that was all long extended eye contact shots, placed to his favourite song. His reaction made it my favourite clip. How often do you exercise? -I walk daily. Hike once or twice a month. Away from being a domme what do you do in your spare time? -I have two great danes that make my life so much fun. I like to read, write, and paint. I am polyamorous in my dating life so that keeps me busy, as well. I like the movies and street food in downtown Honolulu. I also volunteer at the Ronald Mcdonald House and work with the homeless. Personal: You seem to take so easily... is this the same in your vanilla life? -What Vanilla Life. BDSM and Findom are who I am. What fetishes are you into and what don't you like? -I really enjoy Beautiful Agony if I am watching porn. For my subs I love orgasm denial CBT, CEI, and anything to do with the mind is my ultimate fetish. If a sub has a beautiful mind that I can get into and play inside of, it’s a dream come true. But so very rare. As a domme what's the one thing your most proud of? -Being ethical and empathetic. You have a way with words to captivate male minds, have you always been like this? -I’ve always understood intimately the way the mind works… I could read people around me, sense danger more intensely, etc. So yes, I believe so. Who is your favorite fetish model? - Dominant Jade is perfection Do you have submissive girls around you? Or just guys -I have one submissive lady around me in real life and one online. I am bisexual. Business :
When did you realise you wanted to be a domme? -I’ve always had the desire and was able to fully realize and let it come out about three years ago in my private sexual life. Findom and BDSM online was about a year ago. I was approached by a man whom I had known for a long time about Findom.. and it helped me see that I could both be and do what I love, and be cared for accordingly. I was all in. How did you start your work in this industry? -I started on Fetlife and watching as many documentaties as I could find… I created a Twitter account as that seemed to be the best way to interact with fellow doms, dommes, and subs about a year ago. I lurked for 6 months before I started to really advertise. IT was important I understood the industry. What's your best domme experience ? -I currently have a sub that I have such an intense connection with it’s unreal. When you find chemistry with a sub and you genuinely like and care for them, the experience becomes so much more intense and beautiful. Knowing that this precious man entrusts me with his deepest and what some would consider darkest secrets is a beautiful thing. Watching them learn to trust again is incredible after being hurt by inexperienced or selfish dommes. (Shout out to my baby Blue.) What's your worst domme experience? -A man that decided to tell me after we started our session that he was on a 28 hours Crystal Meth and Coke binge… Not a fun night… What's your oppinion about industry? -It gets a bad rap because we do a bad job at keeping our community safe from predatory dommes and time-wasting subs. Still it’s my industry, and I adore it. I wish it wasn’t so taboo. Who do you like to work with? -Miss Lux is seriously hypnotic and doing double rinse sessions with her is my favorite thing to do. Seriously check her out: @miss_luxxx What's your plans further with your brand? -I want to eventually make full length films…. And we are working on our dungeon in the home we are building. Which clips would you recommend ? -My Lemonade clip will blow your mind… and for my Cucks “What Alpha Wants” is amazing. Where can subs book cam sessions and what type do you offer? -Email me at [email protected] and I offer almost everything except incest, blackmail, and anything illegal. I specialize in Mindfuck, JOI, CEI, SPH, CBT, Foot Worship, Ass Worship, Lip or smoking fetish, and verbal degradation if needed. Men seem to fall at your feet so easy? How do you do it? -I believe that even submissives are human and should be treated ethically. IT also doesn’t hurt that I am 5’11 and all legs. So to become your best fan do subs get any rewards? Or is you talking enough? Collared/Owned subs give me 10% of their income and in exchange we do two skype sessions a month, one skype phone call, private snapchat access, daily snaps, and photos. What type of subs do you prefer? -Devoted. Have you had any fit subs? -Several Do you have any tips for newbie subs trying it out? -Be careful with who you trust, make sure the domme is verified. Be honest with what you can do financially and what you are looking for when it comes to the multi-faceted world of BDSM. You have autonomy and should be treated accordingly before play, once play begins always have a safe word. Lastly, if you can’t pay, don’t play. Message to fans? -First and foremost, Welcome to my little corner of the fetish world. It’s important for me not to shame any particular fetishes but also explain what “Findom” means to me, a Findomme. My collared and owned submissive(s) will tell you that we don’t live in a world of constant cruelty and torture. I believe in being ethical, in not taking more than what I deserve, and remembering that even beta boys and cucks are humans. They will tell you I am kind and constantly reassuring them of how lucky I am to have been entrusted with their entire beings. They might also say that this is not a weakness, and that integrity matters to their Goddess. Being owned by me includes daily photos, skype calls, video sessions, and making sure they have a safe place to release all the pressures of daily life. I am not a brat or a bitch, but I understand intimately the beauty of a good mindfuck. I become the voice inside the back their head, the quivering of their balls, the edge they constantly almost fall over. I protect my flock passionately and at the end of the day this isn’t my job, it’s my life. It’s who I am, I am that safe place you leave all your dirty little secrets, and the wet dream you can never seem to wake up from. So approach me. I am always looking for new subs that I have chemistry with, but please do not be offended if I tell you that you are not a good fit for me. If you don’t have money ask me if there are other ways you can be of service to me… but mostly. Thank you. The respect, love, and admiration you shower me with makes me who I am. Put all your links below - https://twitter.com/AGoldMineGutted https://iwantclips.com/store/105049/MissCrystalAnne Thank you for your time Basic : Name? -Cassander Where are you from? -USA About: What kind of books do you read? -I read so many books! Books are everything. Recently I've gotten into James Joyce, though I won't be the liar who says it's easy. I thoroughly enjoy mysteries and horror and psych books What programmes do you watch? -Not super big on TV. I'm more for theatre and movies How often do you exercise? -Once or twice a week Away from being a domme what do you do in your spare time? -Hang out with my friends, study, and make music Personal: You seem to take so easily... is this the same in your vanilla life? -It really depends on the person and situation. After all, sometimes you don't WANT to take What fetishes are you into and what don't you like? -Likes: roleplay stories, findom, joi, public humiliation, tasks, chastity -Dislikes: Anything to do with rape is the biggest no on the list. There are others -oh many others- but that's the one I'd say firmly right now As a domme what's the one thing your most proud of? -My flare for the dramatic and creative You have a way with words to captivate male minds, have you always been like this? -No, actually. I know many say that being a domme is a you-have-it-or-you-don't situation, but I'm open about that my way with words comes from studying psychology and figurative language Who is your favorite fetish model? -princessvalbby . She's fantastic Do you have submissive girls around you? Or just guys -At the time I am answering these questions I have no girl subs Business :
When did you realise you wanted to be a domme? -Well, I suppose there are a few moments in some ways. There was the time when I was young and decided to finally fight back against the bullies. There was the time when I started reading about how to manipulate people and was like, "Holy shit. This is useful if I ever need it," and then there was when I decided that this would be perfect for stage presence and practicing the skill. I guess you could say subs are all lab mice. How did you start your work in this industry? What's your best domme experience ? -Any time I work with another domme What's your oppinion about industry? -As long as there's consent, there is nothing wrong with it and no need for shame. Who do you like to work with? -It would be sick if I could hang with LaughingLantina What's your plans further with your brand? -Definitely to take more classes from more experienced dommes. I've taken a few already, but I could always learn more Where can subs book cam sessions and what type do you offer? -DM me for details on that Men seem to fall at your feet so easy? How do you do it? -My words... My voice helps greatly, but even just typing, I can pull people in. It's extra easy if it's one-on-one So to become your best fan do subs get any rewards? Or is you talking enough? -I'd say that depends on the sub in many aspects. For example, for one sub, talking may be plenty of a reward on its own. For others, rewards are harder to earn, because I expect more from them. And so on. Still, rewards for those who do a good job aren't rare. What type of subs do you prefer? -Loyal, wealthy, and with few responsibilities in their outside life Have you had any fit subs? -I don't care what they look like, so I wouldn't even pay attention. Do you have any tips for newbie subs trying it out? -Make sure you have a clear grasp on your hard limits Message to fans? -Keep it up! I love the love Put all your links below -@CassanderInPink Thank you for your time Basic : Name? - Emily aka Princess Where are you from? - Connecticut About: What kind of books do you read? - Drama/horror What programmes do you watch? - Lots of car shows, heavy wrecking, hauling, stuff like that Do you like watching your videos back? - Not really! It's pretty embarrassing 😂 Does it take you long to film the perfect clip? - maybe 2-3 tries Which is your favourite clips? - I took them all down for the most part so I guess none of them 😂 How often do you exercise? - I don't have time for that! Away from being a domme what do you do in your spare time? - I work A LOT. Waxing, hair and makeup! Personal: You seem to take so easily... is this the same in your vanilla life? - I'm a little too controlling in my day to day life. What fetishes are you into and what don't you like? - I prefer chastity and total power control I don't like medical play and water sports. As a domme what's the one thing your most proud of? - The control I have over so many men 😇 You have a way with words to captivate male minds, have you always been like this? - Always. Who is your favorite fetish model? - I can't say I really have one. I don't spend that much time in the fetish world anymore 🙃 Do you have submissive girls around you? Or just guys - I have both Business :
When did you realise you wanted to be a domme? - When I turned 18 How did you start your work in this industry? - Selling used items on ebanned What's your best domme experience ? - Meeting some pretty cool dommes over the years What's your worst domme experience? - Working at a dungeon in NYC which was a dungeon, but they also participated in sex with subs and that's just not my scene. What's your oppinion about industry? - I honestly think it's changed in a way I'm not particularly fond of in the 6 years I've been in and out. Who do you like to work with? - Princess Pixi What's your plans further with your brand? - I just go with the flow, lay low and let the subs come to you Where can subs book cam sessions and what type do you offer? - Via skype (princessemilyfindom) or kik (emilyzippo) Men seem to fall at your feet so easy? How do you do it? - I was born that way, powerful eyes help though So to become your best fan do subs get any rewards? Or is you talking enough? - it depends on how much I like my subs, but I do send rewards What type of subs do you prefer? - the not annoying kinds 😂 Have you had any fit subs? - Sure have Do you have any tips for newbie subs trying it out? - Message me if you have questions Message to fans? - Hit me up if you want to talk to me, I'm pretty reasonable. Put all your links below - http://submittoprincess.com Skype- Princessemilyct Kik- Emilyzippo Thank you for your time Basic : Name? - Domina Dalilah Where are you from? - I grew up in a cute suburb outside of Detroit, Michigan About: What kind of books do you read? - Since I'm a self proclaimed weeb, I do love manga. I also adore all things horror and weird so Stephen King books are a definite go to. I don't read nearly as much as I should. what programmes do you watch? - So so many, I watch many animated shows from Attack on Titan to Rick and Morty. I think my favorite thing on right now has to be Game of Thrones though. Do you like watching your videos back? - Haha yes the few clips and vids that are on my twitter feed will be watched over and over. But mostly because I'm showing them to others lol. Does it take you long to film the perfect clip? - I don't film my own clips at the moment but I've been considering it and some should be coming soon in the future. Which is your favourite clips? - Well, the kind I would like to film would be foot clips, cbt or ballbusting would be great, and I'm venturing into hypnosis so I would love to post those as well. How often do you exercise? - Barely. It's terrible I know, but I plan on making better changes for myself soon. Away from being a domme what do you do in your spare time? - I love spending time with my fiancé @jadedthinking as much as I can. Usually smoking, playing Xbox, drawing, reading, having existential conversations and also making rad jokes. Although teasing and torturing men takes up a good portion of our time. Personal: You seem to take so easily... is this the same in your vanilla life? - I feel like I don't make many demands of my loved ones. But I've always been spoiled so I definitely feel a little raw if I don't get my way haha. What fetishes are you into and what don't you like? - I love tease and denial so much. Edging subs for hours is one of my favorite pastimes. Chastity, footworship and pegging is up there too. I'm not fond of blackmail, or anything involving urine or scat. As a domme what's the one thing your most proud of? - I'm proud of my personality honestly. I'm really down to earth outside of sessions and I do get to know some of my subs on a deeper level for sure. I also will thoroughly research things that are new to me so that I can become a better domme. You have a way with words to captivate male minds, have you always been like this? - Not always, I was very introverted growing up. But I'm definitely very social and charming so many subs take to me since I'm very easy to talk to. Who is your favorite fetish model? - I have such a respect for Jasmine Mendez. She's a fellow Latina woman and she has built an kinky empire on her own and she is killing it and looking great while she does it. Do you have submissive girls around you? Or just guys - I prefer male subs only. Business :
When did you realise you wanted to be a domme? - About a year ago I started considering it. At first it was just to make some extra income, but I also really enjoy what I do. It's something I'm doing constantly all day so I wouldn't do it if it felt tedious. How did you start your work in this industry? - I started online on social media but I kind of got addicted to doing more and more so I moved onto doing real time sessions. I like doing a mixture of both. What's your best domme experience ? - Random gifts in the mail are always my favorite. I love receiving things without asking What's your worst domme experience? - Honestly just the filtering process. It's hard to find a decent loyal sub. What's your opinion about the industry? - I am a bit newer but I have had a positive outlook so far. I have also connected with a lot of really awesome dommes online which is wonderful. Who do you like to work with? - My fiancé @jadedthinking and I double domme often. She's more about pain and punishment and I'm more about tease and denial so it's a good balance. What's your plans further with your brand? - Clips will be available in the future. Also once I have a stronger fan base I may other join other online accounts for more exclusive content. Where can subs book cam sessions and what type do you offer? - I only do kik sessions at the moment. Skype is a possibility for loyal subs only. Men seem to fall at your feet so easy? How do you do it? - It's not hard. Simply walking into a room and all eyes are on me. And I don't try to act any specific way I'm always myself. So to become your best fan do subs get any rewards? Or is you talking enough? - I can be generous at times to special subs yes. But that takes lots of time and money. What type of subs do you prefer? - Of course loyal, but I do like my subs to hold a decent conversation. Being attractive isn't essential but it doesn't hurt. Also I only want subs that enjoy the privilege of spoiling me, not ones that feel forced. Have you had any fit subs? - Yes I have many. I'm not particular though. Do you have any tips for newbie subs trying it out? - Always be respectful when approaching a domme and be honest. Nobody likes a time waster. Put all your links below 💒⛓Domina [18+] ⛓💒 https://twitter.com/dominadalilah 💒⛓Domina [18+] ⛓💒 http://dominadalilah.tumblr.com 💒⛓Domina [18+] ⛓💒 Kik: Dominadalilah Thank you for your time Basic : Name? -Findom_Heather Where are you from? -Florida About: What kind of books do you read? -50 shades Playboy what programmes do you watch? -Investigation programmes do you like watching your videos back? -Yes Does it take you long to film the perfect clip? -Usually 45 min Which is your favourite clips? -The ones where my sub is in pain How often do you exercise? -3 times a week Away from being a domme what do you do in your spare time? -Basketball, clubs, mother Personal: You seem to take so easily... is this the same in your vanilla life? -Always what fetishes are you into and what don't you like? -Like..ball busting,cuck, chastity long list. I don't like Time wasters As a domme what's the one thing your most proud of? -That's a tie between the money I make and subs You have a way with words to captivate male minds, have you always been like this? -As far back as I can remember Who is your favorite fetish model? - Dominatrixjade Do you have submissive girls around you? Or just guys -3 females Business :
When did you realise you wanted to be a domme? -6th grade when I made a boy clean my shoes How did you start your work in this industry? -Online What's your best domme experience ? -3 piggies on their knees at the beach circlejerk What's your worst domme experience? -Back talking sub What's your oppinion about industry? - I think after all these years females have the right to turn the table Who do you like to work with? -Haven't worked with anyone maybe I should What's your plans further with your brand? -Expand my piggies Which clips would you recommend ? -Edging denial Where can subs book cam sessions and what type do you offer? -I do all kinds of sessions some other dommes wouldn't kik Skype Men seem to fall at your feet so easy? How do you do it? -I have something they want a hot body and a mouth they obey So to become your best fan do subs get any rewards? Or is you talking enough? -I sometimes throw them a bone free clip ECT What type of subs do you prefer? -Rich ones Have you had any fit subs? -Fit oh yes they obey so well Do you have any tips for newbie subs trying it out? - If you are broke don't Message to fans? -Thank you for being a fan Now pay up Put all your links below -Amazon.com/findom_Heather https://www.deliverycode.com/wishlist/17290 Thank you for your time Basic : Name? -Xana Lilith Where are you from? -United States of Turmoil & Distress About: What kind of books do you read? -Mostly self-help and information reads. I also enjoy comic books - Global Frequency is my new favorite series [; what programmes do you watch? -I try not to watch TV, but I do watch a bunch of terrible B horror flicks just for shits and giggles. Do you like watching your videos back? -Well, this is a tricky question to answer. Seeing as I am a new dominatrixx, there are many aspects of my job that I have not completely fulfilled yet. I've only been at my profession for about 5 months now, so unfortunately I do not have clips out there yet. I'm sort of taking my sweet time with this aspect of the game. I can tell you, however, that I had my first three-way a few weekends ago (finally!) and I do have some of it filmed. It's phenomenal. I personally believe I could win a amateur porn contest with it, but I'm unfamiliar with editing so I sent one of the videos to a submissive to edit. I have not received the clips back yet, but I look forward to using some of them in the future. The hardest thing with this aspect is the fact that I'm not sure what sells; I'm not sure if my fans would want to see me performing sexual acts, or just dominating. I certainly need to do more research on this topic, which can be tricky in itself! Does it take you long to film the perfect clip? -Since I've only done one clip session so far, I'm not quite sure. I can't imagine that when I begin filming clips on the regular that it will take me terribly long.The video I spoke of in the last question only took one take, but I was not the one filming. How often do you exercise? -I knew this question was coming ;P I am a cybergrrl for http://flirt4free.com , and I'm in the big booty section....so I try to make sure to work my backside out about 2-3 times a week. However, I was a competitive swimmer for 13 years....and I keep a pretty good shape without cardio, seeing as my body was developed by water and 6 days per week of hard work/training during those godawful years in puberty...ha! Away from being a domme what do you do in your spare time? -If you ask me what I do for a living, I will tell you that I am a camgirl and a dominatrixx. However, I am also a computer science engineering student, and that takes up a huge amount of my time. It's certainly refreshing having the back and forth of aesthetic and intelligent work. Personal: You seem to take so easily... is this the same in your vanilla life? -I am very easy going and open to many different philosophies and ideas, in both my vanilla and fetish lives. If you're asking if I'm a goth in my vanilla life, the answer is 'most definitely'. It's funny though, because sexually, I'm closed at the legs in real life. I'm only ever having sex with you if I'm head over heels in love with you. I'm very afraid of STD's, I'm extremely loyal when in a relationship, and I typically enjoy only having one partner. But I do like to think I'm one hell of a digital slut [= what fetishes are you into and what don't you like? -This is another hard question to answer, because seeing as I truly am so new at this - there are so many aspects of the fetish world that I have not tried or played around with yet. I love findom. I love the mind games, the dominance vs. submission. I'm into mental desperation from my submissives. I have a surprising jeans cum fetish, I love exhibitionism and many of the aspects that come hand in hand with being a domme. I'm very into toys..the only thing that I really don't like very much is scat or defacation of any kind. Diapers aren't high on my list either. As a domme what's the one thing your most proud of? -I feel extremely proud of how far I've come with my sexuality. I feel more whole, more alive, practicing my sexuality in this way everyday. You have a way with words to captivate male minds, have you always been like this? -Yes ;D I'm also very vocal in the bedroom and on camera [; Who is your favorite fetish model? -Mistress Salem //blushes Do you have submissive girls around you? Or just guys -I am heavily bisexual, so I would love to have submissive women around me! But no, not at the moment... Business :
When did you realise you wanted to be a domme? -Now, this is a funny story. I guess it ties in with the next question also. I used to live in a high rise apartment in a big city, and I lived (physically) below a dominatrixx for 2 years of my life. I wasn't as privvy to sexual subcultures at the time, so I didn't really understand what was going on in the apartment above me. Now it all clicks together. This experience had a huge impact on me. How did you start your work in this industry? -This past January, I was looking for a job and really was not having much luck.The day that Trump was pulled into office, said "fuck it, I'm being a camgirl" - which turned into me becoming a dominatrixx What's your best domme experience ? -The very first time I came across a sub who immediately made himself of service and just started buying me things off my wishlist out of nowhere, showing me uttermost dedication and worship. What's your worst domme experience? -I was scammed out of $700 bucks one time. I get scam offers all the time, I hate it. What's your oppinion about industry? -Well, I guess I have a funny answer for this question also. I like to consider myself a very different type of dominatrixx. I say this because first of all, I am empathically sadistic, rather than straight up sadistic and greedy. I don't think that type of behavior really truly does any good, although I know it works well for some dommes. I see many dommes that I don't believe are multi-dimensional, or who don't seem to be very personable to their clients; and even if it works for them - I tend to see that as a kind of failure. Be yourself. Don't solely try to fit into a role. Be different, have an edge. Also, be empathic. I find that it works wonders and subs end up appreciating you & listening to you much more. Who do you like to work with? -I saw a poll on Twitter recently from a submissive (not one I knew) that said something along the lines of, "Would you rather have a money slave, or a loyal slave?" I thought this was ridiculous. In working with various submissives, they are of full understanding that this is my job. This is my career, this is my current profession. I will not work with you and consider you one of my slaves/submissives unless you are a LOYAL MONEY SLAVE. If you are just loyal, how do I make money? No one expects to go to work to not get paid. If you are just a money slave but not very loyal, how could I consider you one of my submissives? You aren't, by a long shot. I like working with subs that have done the internal work to figure out their deepest kinks and desires; or at least are open to discovering them. How am I supposed to work with you if you have no idea what you want out of this? I like working with subs who truly, naturally are & know how to be submissive. Let me tell you, there are some bad subs out there! And by saying this, I don't only mean subs who aren't willing to do the work to figure out what they're truly into. These people are alpha males who will not give up that alpha complex. These subs don't understand that this is my job and that I require payment. It's a hard industry - lots of tricks in hidden nooks and crannies to be able to identify and look out for. If that makes any sense at all...! What's your plans further with your brand? -I would like to turn my brand into Xana Lilith LLC =] Where can subs book cam sessions and what type do you offer? -Good question! There are a couple of ways to do this. As I believe I mentioned previously, I work as a cybergrrl on http://flirt4free.com , specifically & directly: http://xana-lilith.flirt4free.com However, I've noticed that findom is not such a popular fetish on the site. I've played around with the idea of adding additional sites to my repitoire, however I haven't quite done the research and picked the right ones yet. This needs more thought. Therefore, for now - I also do skype sessions. The only factor about this, however - is that I require upfront initial payment via http://cash.me/$XanaLilith , the Circle pay app, or via my Deliverycode, even if I am doing a rinsing/milking session. I have been scammed into giving free shows before, and if you cannot pay me the whole amount beforehand, or at least 40% of finances beforehand, I shall not trust that you have any money at all. Scamming is a big thing to look out for as a dominatrixx. I have also been looking into Skype add-on networks such as Skyprivate, but as I said...I'm not quite here yet. F4F and Squarecash before Skype for now. Men seem to fall at your feet so easy? How do you do it? -I am a siren, and I am a succubus [= I am also a very different type of dominatrixx, which I believe is refreshing to my clientele. Additionally, I'm one hell of a dirty talker [; So to become your best fan do subs get any rewards? Or is you talking enough? -Of course subs are rewarded. I might send surprise photosets for their eyes only, or I might post a surprise humiliation act if that's your thing.I like to advertise when I get something from a sub in the mail, so they feel appreciated, and I tend to watch the amount of attention I'm giving to people who are actually paying me out of loyalty and spending the most money on me. Me talking is of course enough, but I tend to like to go the extra mile. What type of subs do you prefer? -loyal money subs! xana-lilith [siren*] Have you had any fit subs? -I have about 2-3 fit subs right now who I believe are loyal, and who understand the act of submission. I am new at this, and accepting new subs as we speak [= Do you have any tips for newbie subs trying it out? -Tell your dominatrixx that you're a newbie. Be honest, be upfront, and pay upfront if she asks you to. As I've mentioned a few times in the interview, scamming is so prevalent here, so you need to earn your domme's trust. Tell her honest true feelings about how you're feeling about this - that's what this is. Raw, honest sexual therapy - to a certain extent. It's your job to figure out your deepest kinks and desires. It's my job to exploit them, or to work with them and make them a reality - depending on what exactly you're most interested in. Message to fans? -Tribute more, please! Put all your links below http://xana-lilith.flirt4free.com https://twitter.com/cyberxana [email protected] - circlepay, giftrocket, amazon giftcard, straight-up email http://deliverycode.com/wishlist/15081 http://cash.me/$XanaLilith Thank you for your time Basic: Name? -Goddess Jade (The Jaded Goddess) Where are you from? -New resident to the state of Michigan. Born in Philadelphia and been all over since looking for a place to call home. About: What kind of books do you read? -Mostly Horror and Thrillers. Mostly fiction, some non-fiction if I'm in the mood. What programmes do you watch? -A crapload of anime, lol. Lots of different genre shows; Doctor Who, Black Mirror, throw in some Friends, Rick and Morty.. a bit of everything. Do you like watching your videos back? -Yeah. Does it take you long to film the perfect clip? -Sometimes a one take, sometimes forever. lol How often do you exercise? -Not as often as I want to. Away from being a domme what do you do in your spare time? Spend as much time with my fiancé as possible. Read a lot, write, draw. Bike if it's nice out. Personal: You seem to take so easily... is this the same in your vanilla life? -I've always been like this. But with my close friends and my family, I give a lot as well. I try and do charity work when I can. what fetishes are you into and what don't you like? -Top 3 would be chastity, anal training/strap play and any form of torture but especially cbt. I enjoy many fetishes so the easiest thing to say is I don't do anything involving full nudity, piss, scat, intentional bleeding. As a domme what's the one thing your most proud of? -I'm quite talented when it comes to anal training and using hitting implements. I enjoy the anatomy of a human body and knowing exactly where and how to hit with certain things is an art form. Just because you have for example, a cane, doesn't mean you should just start whacking away everywhere. lol You have a way with words to captivate male minds, have you always been like this? -I'd like to say yes, but it was mostly unintentional. I'd have to be vain and say I'm a pretty likeable person, even when it comes to platonic male friends. Who is your favorite fetish model? Sif Blvck and her boy are lovely, the composition of their photos are beautiful. Do you have submissive girls around you? Or just guys -I don't take female subs. I prefer to stick to men. I can't find the capacity to degrade women. Business :
When did you realise you wanted to be a domme? -Jeez, probably freshman year of high school. 2009? I incidentally had my first human ashtray without really knowing what it was. How did you start your work in this industry? -Kind of randomly. I went to play parties mostly and it kind of evolved from there. What's your best domme experience ? -I have a lot of sweet real time boys who bring me lunch to my job. Also free weed never hurt. It shows they care a bit when it's small things. What's your worst domme experience? -Too many to count. What's your opinion about industry? -I feel there's a lot of instadommes and sugar babies who do a lot of bullshit and ruin it for the rest of us. Who do you like to work with? -My fiancé @dominadalilah , one day I hope to work with @theempressalice who is my best friend but she lives across the country and maybe others. What's your plans further with your brand? -I hope to build my own personal dungeon space once I find the right place. Where can subs book cam sessions and what type do you offer? -I normally stray away from cam sessions. I've been focusing more on real time but I do cam from time to time. Dm on twitter or kik. Men seem to fall at your feet so easy? How do you do it? -Be me? Haha. So to become your best fan do subs get any rewards? Or is you talking enough? -My subs do get rewarded from time to time but most of them are very well behaved and aim to please. What type of subs do you prefer? -An intellectual who I can have regular conversations with as well as having my top 3 kinks be their top 3. Have you had any fit subs? -Yes and it makes it all the better to break them. Do you have any tips for newbie subs trying it out? -Be polite, learn about the community and the general rules of contacting a domme. Put all your links below https://twitter.com/jadedthinking http://jadesthoughts.tumblr.com Kik: jadesthoughts More sites to come eventually. Thank you for your time Basic : Name? -Mistress Melody Where are you from? -New Jersey About: What kind of books do you read? -I don't like reading so much. what programmes do you watch? -A lot of "stupid" cartoons like South Park and family guy. Do you like watching your videos back? -Sometimes Does it take you long to film the perfect clip? -It can. I'm a perfectionist so I love having things on point the way I want it to. If it's not done correctly I'll end up redoing things 10+ times. Which is your favourite clips? -Foot clips so far - How often do you exercise? -Almost never Away from being a domme what do you do in your spare time? -I enjoy practicing makeup since I'm very girly. I also like drawing and writing so I might consider myself an "artsy" person. Personal: You seem to take so easily... is this the same in your vanilla life? -Being a findom is way different. It helps if I'm feeling tense or stressed out. What fetishes are you into and what don't you like? -I'm actually more of a sub. I enjoy pleasing my partners and doing "pet play" and things like that. I don't like being excessively rough whether it's me or my partner. As a domme what's the one thing your most proud of? -What I've achieved so far. You have a way with words to captivate male minds, have you always been like this? -No never. As a kid I could be awkward and I don't have many male friends in general. Who is your favorite fetish model? -Lauren Fox Do you have submissive girls around you? Or just guys -Just guys so far. Business :
When did you realise you wanted to be a domme? -When I wanted to stop being broke. I also wanted something related to sex work that didn't involve getting into porn or prostitution. How did you start your work in this industry? -I just started social media accounts and went from there. What's your best domme experience ? -When subs listen to me like the good slaves they're suppose to be. What's your worst domme experience? -Getting time wasters. Anyone who's a findom hates time wasters more than anything. What's your oppinion about industry? -I like it there's nothing I see wrong with it. I don't find it degrading to either person and sex work should be seen as something less taboo. Who do you like to work with? -Lauren Fox and Empress Jazzy What's your plans further with your brand? -Hopefully do nude modeling in the near future along with starting my own business in the sex industry. Which clips would you recommend ? -My customized clips since that's the only thing I offer at the moment. Where can subs book cam sessions and what type do you offer? -For now I don't do those. I started my career not too long ago and am planning to branch out more soon enough. Men seem to fall at your feet so easy? How do you do it? -I learned by looking and observing other dommes. My motivation to make money and get somewhere in the sex industry helps too. So to become your best fan do subs get any rewards? Or is you talking enough? -Talking is usually enough. Like I said I'm planning to branch out more soon. What type of subs do you prefer? -The ones that are genuinely respectful and good paypigs. Have you had any fit subs? -No preferences here. Do you have any tips for newbie subs trying it out? -Don't be a time waster. Even if you donate $5 it'll be generally appreciated. Don't look for a findom who gets too greedy into forcing you if you don't have the money. Message to fans? -Follow me on my social media and be sure to treat your goddess! Put all your links below http://www.instagram.com/miss_melmason https://www.twitter.com/Miss_MelMason Thank you for your time |
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